How To Win Him Back From The Other Woman

This is for my friend, I am charm, whose husband has left her and their child and is off having his affair with the other woman.

The statistics for an affair actually working out are very low, I think it is less than 2% of affairs actually turn into marriages, it is most likely not going to work out between him and the other woman, and it probably won’t even last past a year. This is good news for a wife who wants her husband to return to their family. However, you have many disadvantages on your side right now to work through.

What's in Your Basket?

And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.   Romans 8:28

Do you like cooking shows?  My family and I like to watch the cooking show CHOPPED.  In that show, several top-notch chefs are given a basket of ingredients with which to hopefully make a savory dish.  The challenge is in the ingredients; there is always an item or two that no chef in his right mind would choose.  How does anyone make a five-star dessert with gummy worms ... or grits ... or baby beets? (I hate beets.)

Amazingly, the master chefs are able to take all the odd-ball ingredients in each course basket (appetizer, entree, and dessert) and work them together to make a great-tasting meal. 

GOD IS THE MASTER CHEF

When it comes to life, God is the Master Chef.  He is the One who is able to take all the difficult experiences and bad-tasting ingredients that befall us in life and work them together for good.  He is the God who is able to give beauty for ashes (Isaiah 61:3). 

I talked to a friend this week who is facing some very tough circumstances.  Complications from a routine cataract surgery ended up costing him his right eye.  And if that weren't enough to deal with, he is fighting prostate cancer that has spread.  Without question, he has found some bad ingredients in his basket.